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Thursday, January 31, 2013♥
Something I saw on facebook which I find it meaningful though it's kind of long. Take some time to read this and I hope this will make your future relationship a better one.
 
"Love is not just a feeling, but a decision as well"
A very good read.

AM I WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?

During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO..

Saturday, January 19, 2013♥


First concert of 2013, Jay Park concert with Christina though I'm really not his fan. Christina and I are cousins but we rarely meet up with each other and let alone have some emotional chatting but I'm glad she asked me to go the concert with her and we had a short but good chatting session just now! Really grateful though I've shared the story with many people already.

Well..somehow some memories came back to me while sharing my story and i nearly cry..but it's ok cos crying is part of the process of growing up! Yup, going to be 20 this year and I'm still in the process of growing up cos I know I still have quite a long way to go to consider myself as matured.. But i guess I'm not 80% move on yet. I'll consider myself to be 80% when I wont feel a thing while sharing my story the next time but I dont think I have anyone else to share my story with for now..

Gonna just insert random pictures of us taken today while saying what I wanna say.lol
 
Ok..so anyway a few things happened recently and somehow, sorry to say this but I am actually starting to lose my trust in you.. Don't wanna say what happened but it's really.........irritating/annoying/sad and etc.somehow. It's like I shouldn't have told you so much! Wanted to share with you and now it's like that..Seriously, how can you do this to me? :((
 
*Inserting another one to calm myself*
 
Don't really know what else to say alr but really, one should never get over the limit even though the person is really nice to you. It's ok to joke but pls, look at situation before you do or say anything. I don't wanna have any more regrets already. And you know what? We are just left with around one more month with each other and everyone will be separated again..
 
Can we don't grow up? :(

Wednesday, January 16, 2013♥
 
 
First photo of 2013 and it's with sinyee, we are the 孤独老人主!haha Though it's taken from my instagram but better than nothing right?
 
Yup, it's 2013 now, a new year, a new month, a new start and I am living good. Always wanted to blog about 2012 but I failed to do so.. There's like 4 drafts of what I always wanted to say to someone previously but I don't really care now. So it's not important anymore and we should move on!
 
I don't really know if it's counted as move on or not but I guess it's like around 80% for now?haha Sometimes I feel that it's 100% but there's just some point in your life when you don't feel good about something right? and that's when it drops to 60%. A drastic drop from 100%-60% and so I shall say it's 80% move on for now.
 
It's really no point holding on to a past that does not appreciate and even act like a fool out of themselves. Sorry to say this but sometimes u look really ugly in what you're doing and saying..